At 3:10 he says it was a counselor who told him to divorce. Same for me, I made the horrible mistake of agreeing to go to a counselor. Might have saved my marriage if I’d been smart enough to refuse counseling.
Been there done that 30 years ago. The mistake was marrying the wrong woman because I/We failed to listen to the red flags and clear warnings signs and married her anyway. As Saul/Paul said, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. He continues that if you want to serve the Lord stay unmarried so you aren’t side tracked by a wife’s lust for the world.
No court or lawyers would be involved if we followed the Scriptures instead of getting married with a govt. license for marriage. It is that govt. dog license, err I mean marriage license that gives the state permission to control the marriage and divorce.
My marriage is 10. We are both not perfect but we want to build each other and we need each other and we are one. Yah Himself has put us together. It’s a long story. But yeah, we are 10 and we know that we will make it together until the end. Yah told us this when we’ve met and married 7 years ago.
I get a kick about ur accent. I hv one too! 😬Once a Noo Yawker always a Noo Yawker! LOL! But all kidding aside, plz! move on no mo’ divulging info about ur ex wife. No matter how wrong she may hv been, I can’t imagine how difficult it would be to hear of all of ur failings. It isn’t right Paul. It isn’t!
You are so right what ever there differences was he has children so you should respect her for that if nothing else and stop dogging her out on youtube..
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Sorry to hear that. It is a tragedy what has happened, we have essentially went from men being in full control which wasn’t fair so we bring in law’s but eventually the law starts siding with the women and it’s starts being unfair for men and then we are now at the point of women marrying the state all together, with social welfare programs so men are being reduced to tax cattle and sperm donors.
That is not what it says. When Yeshua taught he said do not put away your wife without giving her a writ of divorce. If you have a divorce paper you are free to remarry.
Very good advice Paul, especially during these times for everyone. Divorce rate has been high and separation. I agree there are some teachings that shouldn’t be taught or its not necessary if you love God with all your heart, mind, and soul. Lord God is always listening.
Paul, you should look into the Bible study of marriage permanence. Then you could determine if you have a covenant spouse. If you do, you should be “standing” for the covenant marriage, with no regard if there is some worldly divorce or remarriage. And if you have a covenant spouse, then you will be chasing skirts. Sometimes the initials are MADR.
Prayers and blessings Paul, thank you Sir for your transparency. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💯 Let the Torah be the referee not a Christian counselor. If the Word says for us to do our roles, just do it. Most of the time in counseling the couples are trying to get each other to change to what they want. Either we believe in the Word or we don’t. I am very familiar in the area of psychiatry/therapy/counseling, and I have heard about and seen many Christian counselors mis lead and destroy couples relationships/marriages. I remember a workshop I went to on marriage and relationship counseling that the Professor, P.h.D female therapist said marital counseling is about moving the relationship from one stage to the next. If someone gets divorced she has done her job by getting the couple unstuck or to move through the impasse and that is successful therapy. It’s not about restoring the marriage. We need to stop going to these so called Christian counselors, and seek The Most High in spiritual guidance and study the Torah for our relationship/martial answers. Most Christian counseling are of the world and don’t believe in The Whole scriptures. Lol, most Christian have trouble with what they call the New Testament. With modern day Christian feminism counselors they are blind to biblical patriarch. Also, I agree with you about not getting a state marriage license. Marriage with the state = State and husband and wife. It’s not biblical, and it’s a polygamy contract with 3 parties. The state is the head over the marriage. Biblical structure is The Most High, Yahshua, husband, wife, and children. Men, I would encourage you to become the king, priest, and prophet of your home and teach Torah to your family. It’s not the churches, children church, Saturday school, etc., it’s your responsibility as the priest of the home to guide your family in Torah to bring about righteous seed for the kingdom of The Most High. Once you model that walk in Torah, your children when they become adults will practice that same path. I believe this is biblical marriage that honors The Most High and what He expects from His children. I pray that whoever reads this will be blessed.☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Shalom
Bro. Paul, I feel so bad. You don’t come across like you are in a good place. Please understand that you are forgiven. Your children don’t have to spend the rest of their lives feeling like their family is a failure. And you have NOT failed. You are a meek, kind individual. Please receive God’s healing. 😔. Y’all let’s keep Bro Paul in our prayers. Our ministers need prayer and encouragement too.
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Why did God tell you to divorce?
At 3:10 he says it was a counselor who told him to divorce. Same for me, I made the horrible mistake of agreeing to go to a counselor. Might have saved my marriage if I’d been smart enough to refuse counseling.
Beth…. some things you have to do !!!
Been there done that 30 years ago. The mistake was marrying the wrong woman because I/We failed to listen to the red flags and clear warnings signs and married her anyway. As Saul/Paul said, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. He continues that if you want to serve the Lord stay unmarried so you aren’t side tracked by a wife’s lust for the world.
No court or lawyers would be involved if we followed the Scriptures instead of getting married with a govt. license for marriage. It is that govt. dog license, err I mean marriage license that gives the state permission to control the marriage and divorce.
Very true 💯
Holman Christian Standard Bible 1Thessalonians 5;18
Give thanks in everything, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
My marriage is 10. We are both not perfect but we want to build each other and we need each other and we are one. Yah Himself has put us together. It’s a long story. But yeah, we are 10 and we know that we will make it together until the end. Yah told us this when we’ve met and married 7 years ago.
Thank u.
I get a kick about ur accent. I hv one too! 😬Once a Noo Yawker always a Noo Yawker! LOL! But all kidding aside, plz! move on no mo’ divulging info about ur ex wife. No matter how wrong she may hv been, I can’t imagine how difficult it would be to hear of all of ur failings. It isn’t right Paul. It isn’t!
You are so right what ever there differences was he has children so you should respect her for that if nothing else and stop dogging her out on youtube..
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I know I will never do it again!!! I lost my Hobby Farm and 40 Acres Money 💰💰 car’s 🚗🚗 Ect. Don’t ever Sign a Contract with the State !!!!
🙏🏻Sorry for your loss Sir. I do agree with you never get a marriage license 💯.
Sorry to hear that. It is a tragedy what has happened, we have essentially went from men being in full control which wasn’t fair so we bring in law’s but eventually the law starts siding with the women and it’s starts being unfair for men and then we are now at the point of women marrying the state all together, with social welfare programs so men are being reduced to tax cattle and sperm donors.
I thought the bible said not to remarry if your ex-spouse was still alive.
@Natasha Mudford Yes marriage is a good thing, but we cannot let the flesh win.
Yeah they were supposed to be stoned to death because of adultery but they changed that so now you cant remarry these days.
@Keith Johnson Yeah a lot of what is going on today would be not be occurring in ancient Yisra’ĕl.
Not unless she Cheats.
That is not what it says. When Yeshua taught he said do not put away your wife without giving her a writ of divorce. If you have a divorce paper you are free to remarry.
Very good advice Paul, especially during these times for everyone. Divorce rate has been high and separation. I agree there are some teachings that shouldn’t be taught or its not necessary if you love God with all your heart, mind, and soul. Lord God is always listening.
Paul, you should look into the Bible study of marriage permanence. Then you could determine if you have a covenant spouse. If you do, you should be “standing” for the covenant marriage, with no regard if there is some worldly divorce or remarriage. And if you have a covenant spouse, then you will be chasing skirts. Sometimes the initials are MADR.
Prayers and blessings Paul, thank you Sir for your transparency. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💯 Let the Torah be the referee not a Christian counselor. If the Word says for us to do our roles, just do it. Most of the time in counseling the couples are trying to get each other to change to what they want. Either we believe in the Word or we don’t. I am very familiar in the area of psychiatry/therapy/counseling, and I have heard about and seen many Christian counselors mis lead and destroy couples relationships/marriages. I remember a workshop I went to on marriage and relationship counseling that the Professor, P.h.D female therapist said marital counseling is about moving the relationship from one stage to the next. If someone gets divorced she has done her job by getting the couple unstuck or to move through the impasse and that is successful therapy. It’s not about restoring the marriage. We need to stop going to these so called Christian counselors, and seek The Most High in spiritual guidance and study the Torah for our relationship/martial answers. Most Christian counseling are of the world and don’t believe in The Whole scriptures. Lol, most Christian have trouble with what they call the New Testament. With modern day Christian feminism counselors they are blind to biblical patriarch. Also, I agree with you about not getting a state marriage license. Marriage with the state = State and husband and wife. It’s not biblical, and it’s a polygamy contract with 3 parties. The state is the head over the marriage. Biblical structure is The Most High, Yahshua, husband, wife, and children. Men, I would encourage you to become the king, priest, and prophet of your home and teach Torah to your family. It’s not the churches, children church, Saturday school, etc., it’s your responsibility as the priest of the home to guide your family in Torah to bring about righteous seed for the kingdom of The Most High. Once you model that walk in Torah, your children when they become adults will practice that same path. I believe this is biblical marriage that honors The Most High and what He expects from His children. I pray that whoever reads this will be blessed.☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Shalom
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Thank u for ur sincerity.
Bro. Paul, I feel so bad. You don’t come across like you are in a good place. Please understand that you are forgiven. Your children don’t have to spend the rest of their lives feeling like their family is a failure. And you have NOT failed. You are a meek, kind individual. Please receive God’s healing. 😔. Y’all let’s keep Bro Paul in our prayers. Our ministers need prayer and encouragement too.
Actually, I am in the best place of my life right now but thanks
Shalom 💖
Wonderful Yahweh bless you and family 💖
Always with Yahweh
Hope that to Yahweh
Yahweh amen